marriage issues are often the major stress points in marriage
Even in quite strong relationships
there are times of tension and marriage difficulties caused by unresolved marriage
issues. It is when they begin to really take over a
relationship and cause real difficulties that advice needs to be sought.
Issues in marriage are many and varied, we will touch on the most
common problems that we come across in our practice.
There is no doubt that money is the cause of most relationship troubles... In most marriages
the payment of bills and banking matters are left to one spouse.
Sometimes that person is completely illiterate when it comes to budgeting, with the result that
the couple often get in a financial mess... then disputes arise.
Communication is the name of the game... continuing discussion and agreement on the handling of
the finances is sure to avoid any future difficulties involving money.
Job versus family
Difficulties often arise when one partner puts their
job ahead of their family... Working long hours at a job is something that many married people use as an
excuse to avoid dealing with other matters such as having to help with the children or helping prepare the evening meal.
A working spouse may also be very ambitious and feel it
necessary to work long hours to impress the boss. Either way marital relationships suffer.
Sex & Intimacy
Along with money problems, disagreement over the
matter of sex is one of the major marriage issues.
Often partners have completely different levels of desire and expectations. This can lead to
arguments and resentment with one person feeling unloved because their sexual appetite is not being satisfied and
the other person feeling that they are being pressured into something that they don’t want to do.
Sexual dysfunction is also becoming increasingly common with almost 40% of both men and women
citing it as a reason for their intimacy problems.
Bad habits can be a marriage killer
One spouse’s bad habits can develop into more than an
irritation for their partner, they can often be the determining factor for a couples marriage breakup.
In no particular order, here are some of the top annoying, disgusting and irritating behaviors
that can grow into monumental marriage issues that are constantly referred to by married couples in our counseling
- Bad hygiene habits.
- Leaving dirty clothes on the bedroom floor.
- Breaking wind in your partners presence.
- Lack of personal hygiene.
- Not tidying up their own mess.
- Lying or hiding the truth.
- Not respecting the furniture.
- Drinking to excess.
- Monopolizing conversations.
- Criticizing your spouse in public.
- Childish behavior.
- Constantly altering the order of things in the home.
- Neglecting grooming.
- Always putting ones self first in all matters.
- Openly criticizing the Christian and other beliefs of friends, colleagues and family.
- Being a control freak
The list is of course virtually endless. However small your partner’s "faults" are, if you find
them irritating they will encumber you, enslave you and prevent you from moving forward in your life.
Long standing bad habits are hard to break, even so given time, there are workable procedures
for breaking them if your spouse is willing to co-operate.
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Are you wanting even more help with unresolved
issues that you or your partner are facing?
Unresolved issues can often destroy a marriage or can potentially turn a happy
marriage into an unhappy one.
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(or the wider family relationship) then take a look at the "Save My Marriage Today" guide to discover practical ways of