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Making your marriage work - some basic tips.
With a little work and care, you can save your marriage and restore your relationship. There is a very basic three step process to making a marriage work and to bring back the good times:
First - Decide that making your marriage work is something that you really desperately want.
This may sound very simple however it is probably the hardest step of all. It’s easy to say you want to save your marriage... but as we all know that doesn’t necessarily mean it is going to happen. As with all goals in life when you decide that making your marriage work is what you really want then you need to make this your number one focus.
Your purpose in life needs to become focused on this one goal - that of saving your marriage. Even if it means making major adjustments to work habits, changing jobs, adjusting your family and social life... if it means not catching up with friends then you don’t catch up with friends.
Nothing should be more important than your marriage.
With everything you are doing you should be asking “will this help me realise my goal of making my marriage work"? The answer should always be yes.
Second - Figure out what is wrong.
Again, this is not as easy as it sounds. More often than not the things that trigger arguments aren’t the underlying problems in a marriage... it's these problems that you need to uncover. Sit down with your partner and acknowledge that things are not working as they should... be honest and open about how you are both feeling in the relationship.
Open this conversation by asking “How can I make you happier”?
Third - FIX IT.
Once a marital problem is acknowledged and defined, it becomes so much easier to actually see what the steps are to making marriage work again.
The problem almost always contains the solution. If the problem is... “I don’t feel I have enough time with you” then the solution has already presented itself. Likewise if it's... “I don’t have enough time to myself” you can move the other way.
The key is to identify the real problems and have an honest shot at fixing them. Successful marriages don't just happen they take constant effort, compromise, communication, sharing and love on the part of both spouses.
So there you have the tips to marriage care and making a marriage work. It may sound really simple but believe us these are easy first step strategies that you can employ to help save your marriage.
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