Avoiding a Relationship Break Up
If you’ve ever had a relationship break up then you know how painful it is. And if you thought back after the relationship ended, you probably saw all the signs that you didn’t recognize before. If you’ll remember those signs and keep them in mind, they can help you prevent a breakup in the future. And they can also help you get back together after a split.
One sure sign of an impending relationship break up is the lack of physical contact. This doesn’t just mean sex. If your partner suddenly stops having an interest in sex, that’s probably a sign of an impending break up. But the normal flow and rhythm of a relationship involves times when there’s lots of sex and times when there’s not much. This is natural.
A relationship break up is probably on the horizon though, if your partner stops holding your hand for no apparent reason. Or he or she stops putting an arm over your shoulder at the movies or in public when they always did it before. Any sudden changes like not touching you much outside the bedroom when your partner was always very affectionate before could signal problems.
If it goes beyond not touching, to the person actually becoming uncomfortable at your touch, then you definitely need to have a conversation with your partner about what’s going on. Don’t just assume that because your partner flinched away from your touch that there’s about to be a break up in your relationship - many things can cause a person to not want to be touched or kissed at any particular point in time.
A person might have have had their mind on something else and been surprised or startled by the touch. He or she might think that your touch signals that it’s time to have sex, that is if you’re not very affectionate except when you want to be intimate. And maybe your partner isn’t in the mood for sex now and chose to demonstrate that by moving away from your touch. That doesn’t mean you’re headed for a break up.
Your partner might simply not feel good. Every change in a person’s behavior doesn’t signal an impending relationship break up or even anything wrong with the relationship. You have to watch them closely for a while to determine if some particular behavior is an occasional thing, something brought on only during certain times, or if it’s a permanent part of the person’s make up.
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